Rude to your server? Checks his texts constantly? Can't stop talking about his ex?
For the most part, I was in serious relationships during my early adult life. Looking back, I can say that even the men who took me off the market ended up being douchebags. The first boyfriend I ever had ended up screwing me over financially and left me greatly in debt.
But a lot of women miss the not-so-subtle signs they need to watch out for. I got this. This is a clear sign that he has plenty of hangups.
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In the age of social media that we live in, it's all too easy to trespass boundaries, whether that be emotionally or even physically. When the physical aspect of your "thing" takes complete precedence over any wining and diningit proves that the person you're seeing is far more interested in sex than getting to know you over coffee, drinks and dinner. All of which require more effort than the horizontal jog.
A troubling phenomenon is sweeping the nation, and it took Details magazine to point it out : Parents might be — horror! But in order to do something about it, you have to know if your boyfriend or girlfriend even is a d-bag. His social calendar is is filled with back-to-back pool parties.
Everybody has their area of expertise. While my friends work their way towards becoming functional members of society, real career paths included, I continue accumulating experience in douchebag analysis, tallying up those 10, hours to become an expert. As a result, I have garnered a rather keen understanding of the nature of the Dbag game, equipped with its own repugnant code of conduct!
Go on, ask away. Photo: Inkling Design Source:Whimn. OK, so that's a bit harsh, but he is an A-hole with a capital A.
The number of my female friends who seek a harsh but honest answer always increases. Yes, concerns about their new guys and things that might be happening. Believe me when I say that this was not something I had planned for myself five years ago.